January 6th
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Live It Up
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The holiday season comes with widespread decoration, cheer, and shopping, but when it comes down to it, this time of year is really about the spirit of giving. Offerings to your friends and family is customary, but there are other people who are in dire need of your generous spirit.
With today’s hectic schedules it can sometimes be difficult to manage a work/life balance.
Often when we spend the day running around for our boss, or staring at a computer screen without blinking, the only thing we want to do at the end of the day is sit and relax. After awhile you may come to realise that you have begun to neglect your friends, leaving the only time you have for them on weekends. You need to step up and organize your social life without delay.
Organizing your social life can be quite easy it just takes a few small adjustments to what you are already comfortable with.
Mark Your Calendar
Nowadays with nearly everyone owning a smart phone, you will have no excuse for why you are not marking your calendar with dates. Use your phone to create date nights with friends. A once a month dinner with your best mates is a great way to stay connected and achieve the social cravings you would otherwise trade for the couch and TV. Don’t have a smart phone? Carry a small agenda with you and pencil it in.Take 5
Facebook and Twitter have somewhat taken over the world, and even though the novelty of these social networks may have worn off by now, try to take 5 minutes everyday to check in on your long distance pals. This doesn’t mean creeping around at everyone’s status. Select the friends you cannot always call and write them a quick note to let them know you are thinking of them. Take 5 minutes the next day to answer any reply. This habit will keep you from staying on Facebook all night, but will also put you back in the loop with your pals.Pick Up The Phone
Though social media is a fantastic form of communication, we must all remember that hearing a friend or loved one's voice is always better. The day has been long, work was tough, and the couch is calling your name … if this is the case, then what a perfect time it would be to call your friend. The point here is, if you are not into going out with friends during the week, call them instead. Communication is what helps any relationship become stronger. The last three ideas you read sound obvious, yes. However, if they were really that obvious you would already be doing so. The real message here is effort. Everything important in life requires effort. And if organizing your work in comparison to your social circles is important, you will exert the effort.
Alas! The holiday season has begun! When is a better time than now to spend with the one you love?
